Sunday, March 21, 2010

Question 5

How to use communication in getting a job?

For me we can use communication to share our Opinion or Analysis directly. At some point we will be asked to share our opinion and explain how we came to that opinion. We may even need to defend our opinion in a cool, concise way. Listen to others, and pay attention to how they express themselves. Be aware of our company culture, and stay within that framework.

A fun way to improve this skill is to listen to talk radio shows that feature controversial issues. If we scan our AM dial during drive time, we're sure to come across one. We'll hear many articulate people sharing and defending their view. We may even feel compelled to call in and try our skills with the host.

We also can find a mentor. Role play with our mentor and ask for candid feedback. Most times when we are asked our opinion at work, it is regarding a subject we are close to. Relax and share our experience. Be confident in our self because we are the expert on what we do. All forms of communication are a reflection of our professionalism, our intellect, our preparedness, and our character. We'll never be sorry we took the time to develop our communication skills. 

Friday, March 12, 2010

Question 4

Current Issues.

I was in the middle of eaten of sandwich when the next news item rolled in on TV3’s Buletin Utama.

My focus initially was more on the sandwich. But when I looked up at the TV screen, the picture of a girl in a red dress, stopped me in mid-munch.

By the time the news item ended, I was shocked with this news. Three-year-old Syafia Humairah Sahari had been kicked, battered and stomped on like footballer kick their ball.

What made it all the more shocking was the fact that the hell Syafia was subjected to did not happen behind closed doors but out in the open, in full view of the public.

People came to her to save her from be mo injured but it was too late. She succumbed to her injuries. Her frail body bore testimony to the sufferings she had endured at the hands of her alleged tormentor, her mother’s 28-year-old boyfriend. The post-Morten report issued revealed that the child died of severe abdominal injuries and brain haemorrhage. Bruises and cuts were also found on the child’s back, neck, chin and shoulders.

I can’t even begin to understand how a human being could do that to another, and a child at that. Who think there are such people in this world. Safia, who should be playing with friends, went to school was go early from them.

I really hope the cruel man will be punish with appropriate punishment . And also to parents, please keep your children well, and seek suitable partner in your life. If not, that impossible these things can not happen again. 

AlFatihah to Syafia Humairah Sahari.

Question 3

Non Verbal Communication.

Good communication skills can help you in both your personal and professional life. While verbal and written communication skills are important, research has shown that nonverbal behaviors make up a large percentage of our daily interpersonal communication. 

For me, everyone must know about non verbal communication because we as a Malaysian has many kind of people. In this world do not have perfect person. There are some individuals who are born with imperfections, such as lack of hearing, visually impaired and others. They came under among disabled persons.

So that, I think with non verbal communication we can interact each others easily. But carefully while communicate non verbal. We must pay attention to non verbal signal like their  eye contact, gestures, posture, body movements, and tone of voice. All of these signals can convey important information that isn't put into words. 

To learn more about non verbal communication we need to Practice, Practice, and Practice because non verbal communication is not easy to study and use it. Some people just seem to have a knack for using nonverbal communication effectively and correctly interpreting signals from others. These people are often described as being able to "read people." In reality, we can build this skill by paying careful attention to nonverbal behavior and practicing different types of nonverbal communication with others. By noticing nonverbal behavior and practicing our own skills, we can dramatically improve your communication abilities.